Please i havent had intercourse for quite some time due to my firehose genitalia, i need answers!
If one thing can be said about most men, it’s that they’re horny. What’s important to horny people? Yes, getting some. Well, if impressing your partner is important and sex is important, and you want to do the best you can, under all that pressure, you choke. What’s worse, you’re now embarrassed, you think you let her down. You’re afraid of this situation, so you have even more anxiety about your wiener, and it’s just a bad cycle.
There is a slim chance it could be something medical. Perhaps you smoke cigarettes, drink before sex, smoke pot or are on anti-depressants or some other prescription drug with the side effect of Mr. Floppy staying floppy. Diabetes and kidney disease can also cause it, but you’d probably know if you had that at this point.
It could also be depression. You can’t get it up if you’re depressed and you can’t get it up if you’re on anti-depressants. The world can be a cruel, cruel place.
It might go away on it’s own. When you’re about to give up because you can’t perform, watch her masturbate or lay over her while she manual stimulates you. Have her teach you what kind of oral sex she likes. Just figure out something you like likes and do that. Foreplay isn’t just for turning her on. It’s also for stalling for time when your dick is running late for work. Speaking of masturbation, save up your orgasms. Having too many orgasms can make it harder to get it up.
I nearly forgot. Condoms can be a big problem. Do NOT stop using protection. Are you especially large? Get larger sized condoms. Constrictive condoms don’t help erections, and the tightness also decreases what you can feel when you’re inside her. If you don’t know if you’re “large” or not, take a toilet paper tube and try to put it over your erect penis. If it’s a tight fit, doesn’t go in at all, or rips the tube, you’re larger than average and you need larger condoms. I do not recommend Trojan’s large brand, as they don’t feel larger to me. Even if you’re not large, some guys just can’t work with a regular condom. Spend the extra money for a nice thin condom like Kimono, or a specialty condom with texture or a special shape. Do NOT stop using protection. Have fun with experimenting with different condoms. You can even try a female condom, but to me, it feels like having sex with a garbage bag, and they can sometimes fall inside her vagina during sex, which isn’t safe. Do NOT stop using protection.
I still have problems from time to time. Learning to use your tongue really well is worth more than the longest, widest, hardest meat whistle.
I’m with you on the not wanting to use Viagra. I paid for dinner, I paid for a movie, I paid for the gas and now I have to throw down a pop for a boner pill? There’s no justice in the world.